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	<description>by Patrick Edwards-Daugherty</description>
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		<title>Comment on Leaf On Water by orinoco womble</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2009/10/07/leaf-on-water/#comment-5813</link>
		<dc:creator>orinoco womble</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2012 11:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rereading this discussion I realise that I also see colours in my mind linked to certain smells. There used to be a cologne called &quot;Othello&quot;...I just described it to someone as &quot;dark mossy green with flashes of gold.&quot;
They don&#039;t make it anymore, unfortunately.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rereading this discussion I realise that I also see colours in my mind linked to certain smells. There used to be a cologne called &#8220;Othello&#8221;&#8230;I just described it to someone as &#8220;dark mossy green with flashes of gold.&#8221;<br />
They don&#8217;t make it anymore, unfortunately.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Trap by orinoco womble</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2012/05/12/trap/#comment-5812</link>
		<dc:creator>orinoco womble</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 11:01:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The need to preserve what is percieved as &quot;freedom&quot; can indeed become a trap. I see it so often in college students and recent grads...they can only spend about 2 years in any one place, or job, or relationship, or friendship. A friend of mine called it &quot;fleeing forward.&quot; They have to keep moving on...but someday they&#039;ll come to the end of the line and all their friends will be behind them. And it will be lonely out there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The need to preserve what is percieved as &#8220;freedom&#8221; can indeed become a trap. I see it so often in college students and recent grads&#8230;they can only spend about 2 years in any one place, or job, or relationship, or friendship. A friend of mine called it &#8220;fleeing forward.&#8221; They have to keep moving on&#8230;but someday they&#8217;ll come to the end of the line and all their friends will be behind them. And it will be lonely out there.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Trap by Alice</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2012/05/12/trap/#comment-5811</link>
		<dc:creator>Alice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 19:01:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I trapped myself in the thought that it&#039;s ridiculous to &quot;do what you love&quot; for a career. 

Three years into an intense four year tech school, I realized how incredibly miserable I&#039;d been for at least ten years of my young life. I graduated with honors, and I set off to backpack around the world and hit the &quot;Reset&quot; button. 

Five years later, I&#039;m still hitting the &quot;Reset&quot; button. I&#039;m starting to wonder if this, too, is a trap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I trapped myself in the thought that it&#8217;s ridiculous to &#8220;do what you love&#8221; for a career. </p>
<p>Three years into an intense four year tech school, I realized how incredibly miserable I&#8217;d been for at least ten years of my young life. I graduated with honors, and I set off to backpack around the world and hit the &#8220;Reset&#8221; button. </p>
<p>Five years later, I&#8217;m still hitting the &#8220;Reset&#8221; button. I&#8217;m starting to wonder if this, too, is a trap.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Trap by orinoco womble</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2012/05/12/trap/#comment-5810</link>
		<dc:creator>orinoco womble</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 16:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My startling ability to shake my head--and say yes. Allowing people to take advantage of my flexibility. It took me about 35 years to learn to say &quot;no&quot; and make it stick. As Jane Austen said, there are people that the more you do for them, the less they will do for themselves. And I would add, the less they appreciate it. When it gets to the place they only criticise and notice what you haven&#039;t been able to do, not what you&#039;ve done...it&#039;s time to get out of the trap.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My startling ability to shake my head&#8211;and say yes. Allowing people to take advantage of my flexibility. It took me about 35 years to learn to say &#8220;no&#8221; and make it stick. As Jane Austen said, there are people that the more you do for them, the less they will do for themselves. And I would add, the less they appreciate it. When it gets to the place they only criticise and notice what you haven&#8217;t been able to do, not what you&#8217;ve done&#8230;it&#8217;s time to get out of the trap.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fly Trap by Secret Vespers</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2008/08/06/fly-trap/#comment-5809</link>
		<dc:creator>Secret Vespers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 May 2012 18:27:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe! Email me to explain more what you&#039;d like to do: somerled@secretvespers.com.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe! Email me to explain more what you&#8217;d like to do: <a href="mailto:somerled@secretvespers.com">somerled@secretvespers.com</a>.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Fly Trap by reuven</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2008/08/06/fly-trap/#comment-5808</link>
		<dc:creator>reuven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 15:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>May i use this commercially?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>May i use this commercially?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Secrets by Louise Cohn</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2010/03/30/secrets/#comment-5806</link>
		<dc:creator>Louise Cohn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Apr 2012 09:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I personally never feel more transparent, invisible than when someone is looking at me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I personally never feel more transparent, invisible than when someone is looking at me.</p>
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		<title>Comment on In a Band by Secret Vespers</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2012/02/28/in-a-band/#comment-5802</link>
		<dc:creator>Secret Vespers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 17:51:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jas Bird: I picked a photo online at random, not sure exactly where it came from. I redid the eyes, the shadows forming the cheekbones, nose and chin. I also drew new hair and did some other stuff. It seems I have inadvertently turned a picture into a picture of you—without even knowing what you look like!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jas Bird: I picked a photo online at random, not sure exactly where it came from. I redid the eyes, the shadows forming the cheekbones, nose and chin. I also drew new hair and did some other stuff. It seems I have inadvertently turned a picture into a picture of you—without even knowing what you look like!</p>
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		<title>Comment on In a Band by Linzi</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2012/02/28/in-a-band/#comment-5800</link>
		<dc:creator>Linzi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Apr 2012 06:52:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my mother.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my mother.</p>
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		<title>Comment on In a Band by Jas Bird</title>
		<link>http://secretvespers.com/2012/02/28/in-a-band/#comment-5799</link>
		<dc:creator>Jas Bird</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Mar 2012 22:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, I&#039;m just wondering.. Where did you get the photo for this piece? I&#039;m just asking because it looks pretty much exactly the same as a photo that was taken of me in my fathers kitchen, maybe six years ago now..
I&#039;m curious. I&#039;ve stared at it for a few hours, and it&#039;s still me. Even if it&#039;s not.. Kinda creepy. Is there a doppelganger out there somewhere?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, I&#8217;m just wondering.. Where did you get the photo for this piece? I&#8217;m just asking because it looks pretty much exactly the same as a photo that was taken of me in my fathers kitchen, maybe six years ago now..<br />
I&#8217;m curious. I&#8217;ve stared at it for a few hours, and it&#8217;s still me. Even if it&#8217;s not.. Kinda creepy. Is there a doppelganger out there somewhere?</p>
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