By: Jazi-fay

Jazi-fay — Tue, 04 May 2010 16:27:55 +0000

I see it as clouds, not birds. maybe thats just cause I like clouds. .

I think at some point in our lives we have all been victims of both installments of this picture.

I know I have.

By: Jx.

Jx. — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 05:12:12 +0000

Sometimes the only reason you leave is because you think no one needs you.

By: MalikTous

MalikTous — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 13:30:31 +0000

Albatross!

By: orinoco womble

orinoco womble — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 18:06:53 +0000

Word.

By: Vee

Vee — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 20:05:05 +0000

My mother might be thinking this right now. But honestly I left for other reasons, too.

By: ritz

ritz — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 15:01:36 +0000

I guess not.

I usually explain before leaving and I usually ask before or after “being left”.

If I was the one left and it was made clear that that the other wants to leave me, I wouldn’t consciously (willfully) wait.

By default, the premise is the other left because he WANTS to leave, so why wait?

I am a straight-talker so i expect the same from the people I deal with. If the other says he wants to leave, I take it as a decision he has already mulled over.

Now if he wants to come back, the premise is: if he is capable of contemplating leaving, then he’ll be capable of contemplating going back. I do not need to help him on that aspect.

If at some point he decides to come back, so be it. I am as free to decide as he is when that time comes.

The heart and the brain are there for a reason. I can always listen to both and process what they are telling me at the exact time the one who left has decided to come back.

Now, if I was the one who left and I feel like I need to go back, I’ll initiate. However, if after initiating, I am no longer welcome, then I believe I have to respect his choice. That is what he is saying so the premise is, that
is his choice.

If at some point he wants me back, then he can just say so (given the premise that i’ve already initiated). He is free to express himself as I also have been.